But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. Galations 5:22-23
I have always noticed that I easily and naturally fall into the hospitality role. Regardless if I am hosting or just taking care of friends I excel behind the scenes. I believe we are given certain talents; these actions that come easily. Many people squander or ignore divinely given traits. I imagine this could lead to discontentment in our lives. If we feel there is something missing or that we feel lost perhaps it is because we are not using our Fruit of the Spirit to the fullest. I can tell you longsuffering or temperance isn’t an easy trait to be endowed with but it is something that can make our lives complete.
If you ever wonder where you should be in life, search your heart and see what talent you are strongest. Use these talents to their fullest extent. Regardless of your beliefs you will grow as a person and perhaps find your place in the world. If you are weak in one area attempt to develop it so that you can live a more rounded, fuller life.